Monday, August 1, 2016
Saturday, July 23, 2016
Welcome back, and if you are new here, welcome. Hope you enjoy.
Before I get to the topic, I want to let you know that I was planning on posting every Wednesdays, but now I decided at least once (maybe 2?) a week. We'll see how that goes. I also updated my website...again! LOL! I wasn't happy with the images before, and I couldn't find the one I had before that, but I did find some better ones. Go figure!
Okay, on to the topic! Nowadays, there are many people out in the world that don't hold back anymore when they are ticked off. Yes, it's bad. Really really bad! They have to "express their own opinions" because "it's a free country," but there are always an invisible line where it has to be stopped. By that, I mean it is okay to not agree with the other person but you must respect each other. These days, a lot of people are like cats and dogs! Animals, I tell you! Getting into fist fights, hitting, bullying, not stopping until they get the last word.... Stupid! How do I handle rude people?
The key for handling and keeping the peace is being calm, patient, and understanding. Not to mention to be polite. I got amazed at the results when I tried it the other day, and it was accidental! I asked a Youtuber a video request and never have I imagined I would be confronted by someone who didn't agree with my opinion. That is fine, but there was no respect on her part. I had it in my mind to be understanding, respectful, and polite. Believe it or not, our parents, grandparents, ancestors were right! Doing this is the right way.
I took screenshots of the situation to show you guys. The girl who was rude to me starts with the name "Hey." Mine is, of course, my first name, Hilda with the picture of a happy sun. (Click to enlarge).
SHE APOLOGIZED! ...WOW! It really works! I was being nice, respective, and polite to her even though I didn't agree with her, but I showed her respect. That is what my mom taught my siblings and I to be.
And I strongly suggest it to everyone to try it. Besides, "It feels so good to do good." --Hilda. ;)
"Whether you agree with the other person or not, you must respect each other." --My Mom.